OK, I'm not someone who is hung up on how people express their gender identity. If you're a man and you feel feminine, do what you have to do to resolve that. I'll be OK. Butch female? No problems, people have made disparaging comments on their perceptions of my lack of "femininity". I'm not about to judge someone else. We all try to get through this life the best way possible.
Am I the only person having trouble processing the new peanut commercial on TV now? "Mr. Peanut", with his monocle and cane has never really struck me as anything but a slightly stuffy male peanut character.
But suddenly here he is strutting his stuff and using his hourglass-form "peanut" body like a female dancer's hips and shoulders. And I'm having trouble with that. I'm used to Mr. Peanut being a man, and now he's different. The Mr. Peanut I grew up with is very different and the changes are sudden and unexpected. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to respond to him, and not having those handy consistent gender-based references makes me uncomfortable.
Sorry, Mr. Confusing Transgender Peanut, you need to give me a little time to work this out.